Is It Fair?

As of late I have been worring about something…

It’s hard to explain, but ultimately it boils down to me and a long-standing friend are meeting each other to go on a road trip. We haven’t met each other before in person but we will be doing so to go to Blizzcon. I’ll be picking him up in his hometown and then setting course for geekdom.

This is fantastic, I really CANNOT wait to go, but I am worried. If I come out sometime after the roadtrip, will there be negative repercussions on him? Will people start to question his sexuality? I know he is straight, I know nothing of the sexual sort would happen, but I do NOT want my lifes problems becoming a burden on him.

To an outsider, they may see me and him traveling far away together. It leaves room for people to question. More than anything I do not want to cause him harm or discomfort…

I am really unsure of what to do. Is it fair to him that I might put him in this situation? Am I selfish for not coming out sooner?

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~ by TJ on July 29, 2010.